Before he became too sick to speak for himself,
Dawn’s beloved husband, Jimmy, told her many times that he wanted to die at home if no further treatment was possible. “No machines,” he said. “Just let me go in peace.” When the time came, heartbroken as she was, Dawn agreed with the doctors that letting Jimmy die naturally, if his heart should stop, was what he would have wanted. But when she was asked to sign a POLST as his surrogate to officially designate his DNR status, Dawn felt overwhelmed by unbearable emotion. She felt unable to sign the form.
It is for this reason that the Oregon POLST form does not require a surrogate signature in situations like this. Studies show that the burden of emotional distress, and lasting symptoms of anxiety and guilt, some family members feel when they are asked to take active steps such as signing a form to withdraw or limit treatment for their loved ones. One family member reported that “I would not wish this on my worst enemy.” Oregon opposes the
POLST Paradigm uniform document requirement that surrogates sign POLST forms, because doing so contributes to substantial suffering for family members like Dawn.
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